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can you tell
How you met?
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It was summer.
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There was some kind of party.
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I got there with a close friend.
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- You have to get something to drink.
- Hi. Cozy, cozy.
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I was really lost.
I was in the middle of a break.
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i had been too long
in a very bad relationship.
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No.
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I had two young children,
who needed me all the time.
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Hi. I'll be right away.
I'm just going to say the night here.
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i had projects
and tried to establish me.
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and then suddenly he was there.
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What was so strange was that it was
As if I knew him. It was ...
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"there are you!"
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"where have you been
all this time? "
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i've never had it like that
with someone before.
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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I feel I know you.
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- I just feel like I know you.
- Oh, yes?
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OK. Yes.
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for many months I was wondering
how I should get him.
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I sought out all the places
I could come to meet him.
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Could I get him?
It was not given.
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there were so many
who wanted him.
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I had to. I would never til-
give me even if I didn't get him.
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and then one evening
were we in the same place.
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I can take it.
Can I pay with Vipps?
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he had freedom.
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and a lot of friends.
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I had children.
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and he loved them from the first moment.
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Yes. That's how it was.
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Hello? Yes.
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Yes, that project description
I wrote yesterday.
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I'll call later,
There is a bit of chaos here. Hi.
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Mikael, you have to go down.
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Unfortunately, it was rejected.
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Then ... shall we see.
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Unfortunately, it was also rejected.
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No, no.
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You have to transfer money. It's not
Money on the card. Mikael, please.
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Hello.
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- The bright or the one with glitter?
- I have to pee.
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- But go to the bathroom, then.
- You don't care.
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- Ludvig, take out of the dishwasher.
- Why? Alma messed in the kitchen.
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- Yeah, Stella.
- What should we have for dinner?
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- Dad picks us up three blocks.
- We have not submitted this.
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No, no, no, Stella. Not that.
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- Mom, I'm done!
- Alma, can you help him?
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I'm not going to dry him.
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- I have to pack.
- Just do as I say.
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- Then I go without.
- Ludvig, we'll find you something.
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Last I was the only one
Who did not have bus cards.
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He doesn't want me to do it.
It stinks.
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Really. Then you have to take Stella.
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- You didn't come and pick up last weekend.
- Was a tournament, so it didn't work.
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You have to arrange it with me first.
The kids were waiting for you.
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You can't just do as you please,
And never take the phone.
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- Okay. Are you ready?
- I pick up my headphones.
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Go out!
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- I just want to talk to you.
- Close the door. Go out.
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I realize it's not fun
When Dad and I talk like that.
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- It hurts!
- I say you should close the door!
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- I haven't done anything.
- You're annoying and clever. Go!
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- Now it holds!
- I hate you!
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Dad, can I move to you?
I can't bear to stay here anymore.
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Yes, it is not impossible.
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- My girl. The darling.
- Your spirit stinks.
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Star boy, hey.
Look me in the eyes when you say it.
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- Hi.
- Hi.
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I bought wool underwear for the kids.
Just hope that is the right size.
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There is so much to remember.
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- How's you doing?
- No, what do you think?
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It's not okay that you
Never come when you say you should.
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We just walked over time, so that
Was not so much I got to do.
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You don't answer when I call.
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I ran out of power.
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So great you are.
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Was it good?
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Yes, it went pretty well. I have
Played with a couple of the others before.
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But the manufacturer went out from
that I should do something else, -
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- So we spent some time on
to find out together.
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Yes. But I was pretty tired.
Or out of shape.
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I often sleep poorly in hotels,
so i get groggy, -
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- and then it propagates beyond
all day. It was tiring.
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Yes, I realize I am proper
Tiring to sleep in hotels and ...
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It's good to be back home.
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Wednesday was frustrating.
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We didn't find out anything,
So we spent several hours on ...
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There has been something stuff
With Mikael at school again.
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He has thrown stones through the window.
They have asked for a conversation, -
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- But I've said we have to wait
On you, so we can do it together.
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OK. Let's do it.
That's nice you say.
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I like you.
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- I don't like you.
- No?
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No? Stupid, then.
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It is so dusty of you to let me
Be here alone. It's a hell.
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I should report you to the police
For attempts at murder, -
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- for it was so far
I survived that day.
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When I finally could make dinner,
Went the smoke detector.
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It has you hung so high up,
That I have to stack three chairs.
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I got a glimpse of myself,
And the sight was so fucking, -
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- That you had hung yourself.
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I love you.
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I love you.
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I love you.
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- And then the project was rejected today.
- Oh no.
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Can't say that "oh no".
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I don't get it.
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You must not draw conclusions
based on one time.
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They don't want me
And what I have to offer.
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Don't think that way.
You have plenty to offer.
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You are strong and truth -seeking.
You could have chosen a lighter road.
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You haven't done that.
That's why I like you.
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You have to believe that you get it.
Try to see the big picture.
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It is that you work all the time.
Then I don't get anything.
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When I have to be home with the kids,
I can't concentrate.
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I have had to cancel important meetings
due to lice and dental lessons.
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It doesn't work.
I can't concentrate.
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Now I'm going to be home for two weeks.
Then you can work.
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Two weeks? Are you meat, right?
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- You shouldn't travel anymore.
- It wasn't certain.
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Yes, it was.
Have you said yes to more work now?
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It was uncertain with your applications,
And we have to have an income.
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- You assumed I didn't?
- No, end, then.
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I don't want it that way!
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I don't get time to breathe
Or get to a place to get it done.
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It's not just you
who will work.
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It's too late to jump off now.
It's two more weeks.
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- I have to cancel things all the time.
- Otherwise, I never get a job again.
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Then you can feel a bit
How I feel.
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Yes, I understand that well.
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Yes.
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I'm glad to hear that.
That's what I tried.
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Yes, very. Yes, of course.
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Yes. It sounds very good.
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I totally agree.
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Yes, I thought the same.
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Yes then. This we really care about,
So it's good to talk about it.
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Good, Åsa.
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Do you take the parent call
On the phone?
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Yes, we really appreciate that.
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Right?
Yes, it is important to stand together.
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- We will have that conversation together.
- I'll tell her.
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- Can you put on?
- Well, then we keep in touch.
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- Can you put on?
- We're talking. Have a good time.
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What the hell are you doing?
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Did you take the parent call
On the phone? Did you do that?
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Why not? Åsa called. You said yes
That we had postponed it too long.
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- There were things we have to talk about.
- Yes, things we have to talk about.
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We have postponed that
Because you've been gone for months.
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I said we have to wait for you,
So we could all be present.
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Surely I shouldn't ask you everything?
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I postponed it to you, and
Then you are going to join me.
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Now you can take it easy. We agreed
That someone comes and investigates him.
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Did you arrange it?
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Yes.
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You can't just agree it
Without being in the conversation.
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He does not need any investigation.
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You know nothing
About what he needs.
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Are you completely stupid, right?
Are you that?
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You can't just come home
That way.
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You are stepping in here
Without asking me.
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Why are you doing it?
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Can you answer?
Why are you doing it?
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Do you fuck what I think?
Fuck take you!
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So end, then! Don't you see
That I try to help you?
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Don't see me trying
To do something good? I can't do any more!
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Maria.
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What is that?
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This, it ... it doesn't work.
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- What is you talking about?
- It's not possible.
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You ... you need help
to that mind.
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Help?
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Yes. You have to at the mastery course,
something.
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- I can't have it that way.
- I can't either.
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- Maria, I mean so.
- Yes, me and.
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But it's not me
which is going on course. Maybe it's you.
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What you are doing ...
I get sick of it.
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What I'm doing?
What you are doing makes me sick.
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You are angry and angry.
Look at you now. You are drit -int.
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You can't mean -
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- that I am going to change my mind
Because you did something that was neat.
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Besides, you were
At least as angry as me.
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Hello.
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Who wants yogurt?
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OK. Please be so good.
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Are you going ...?
No, no, no ... Have you seen?
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Can you dry it up?
Thank you. It helps a lot.
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It was a bit ...
Should you also have more?
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Good morning. There is coffee on the jug
If you want.
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Mom!
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- Mom!
- Stella!
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- Mikael, now we'll go soon.
- Okay.
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Come on, then.
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- Okay, dad.
- Yes ...
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Now we're going, Mikael.
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Come. Yes!
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- Help, dad.
- Yes, now we're going.
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- Why that?
- Then we'll touch it.
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I am willing to work with me
yourself, but you also have a lot in this.
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So. Wait for Dad.
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You don't want to be separated?
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Do you want to be separated?
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My God, answer, then.
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Dad is coming.
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- Who should go to bed?
- I.
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Are you going to sleep here?
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I hurt my head.
I need to sleep.
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- Can't we talk?
- I can't do now, Maria.
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- Can't we sleep together anyway?
- I don't feel very good.
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I can't just change.
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You know how tired I am.
I can't do it now.
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You wake up the kids.
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We can talk about it tomorrow.
It's late now.
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- Have you met another? Is it?
- No, certainly not.
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What is it then?
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- What is it?
- We can talk about it tomorrow.
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So. We have to sleep now. Please.
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I can't do this.
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I can't be here
When it's like that.
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- No well.
- "No well"?
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I'll go away until you've found out
What you want. You get to take the kids.
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- Okay.
- "Okay"?
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OK.
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Do you think it's good
That I just go?
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It was you who suggested it.
If you need it, that's fine.
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I can't be here
When it's like that.
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Just do what's best for you.
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So you think
That this is best for me?
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Mikael, do you think I'm very angry?
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Maria, he's going to let it go there.
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- Mikael, do you think mom is angry?
- Stop. End!
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He would say that
If he thinks so.
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You can at least squeeze me.
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I love you.
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Fuck it, you're just really fucking.
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- Thank you very much. It's so kind of you.
- It should just be missing.
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- I'll call you. Good luck.
- You and. Have it.
240
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:48,000
You have come to Sigmund. Fence
a message, then I call back.
241
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:56,400
Leave a message,
Then I call back.
242
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,500
is the mind about to destroy
The relationship with your family, -
243
00:31:12,700 --> 00:31:16,000
- can you get help
of the Bråseth model.
244
00:31:16,100 --> 00:31:21,400
offer is to all over 18
that struggles with anger and violence.
245
00:31:21,500 --> 00:31:25,500
it is important
to address their problem, -
246
00:31:25,700 --> 00:31:29,300
- because it harms
the rest of the family.
247
00:31:36,300 --> 00:31:38,300
End!
248
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,000
- Hi.
- What are you doing here?
249
00:31:50,100 --> 00:31:54,200
I just come to meet you.
We may be able to go to a cafe.
250
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,500
Don't come here.
It's great.
251
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,400
There is no huge flute
That I come to say hello.
252
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:06,300
- Mom, just go. OK?
- It's a hurtful thing to say.
253
00:32:06,500 --> 00:32:11,700
I just come to be decent.
You don't have to talk to me like that.
254
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:14,400
Mom, I don't want to
That you are going to come here.
255
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,400
Why not?
I never come in.
256
00:32:17,500 --> 00:32:21,600
Is that so tight
To visit a single walk?
257
00:32:21,700 --> 00:32:26,300
I thought you might think so
It was nice. But no.
258
00:32:26,500 --> 00:32:30,900
My God, so embarrassing!
Your mother came to visit to say hello.
259
00:32:31,100 --> 00:32:34,100
- You're really crazy.
- So go, then.
260
00:32:34,300 --> 00:32:36,700
Yes, just go. Please be good!
261
00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:46,700
Alma, sorry. It was stupid.
I'm sorry it was like that.
262
00:33:03,300 --> 00:33:07,800
You have come to Sigmund. Fence
a message, then I call back.
263
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:11,100
Hi. It's me.
264
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:14,700
I was just wondering how things are going.
265
00:33:16,100 --> 00:33:21,200
If you are going into town tomorrow,
Can you bring my eczema?
266
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:26,400
It lies at the top of the shelf
in the bathroom on the left.
267
00:33:26,500 --> 00:33:31,100
It is itching very now.
It itches much more than usual.
268
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:36,700
Then I might not get to sleep, and ...
I may have to go to the doctor, but ...
269
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:42,800
Can't you ...?
Call or message me, then.
270
00:33:46,700 --> 00:33:50,400
By the way, I forgot some socks.
And underpants.
271
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:55,600
If you can bring it too ...
And then ... ok ...
272
00:33:55,700 --> 00:33:57,700
Night.
273
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,800
I'm in the middle of a meeting.
274
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:07,600
I only found the blue underpants.
It was stress this morning.
275
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,300
And then it was
This cream wasn't it?
276
00:35:12,300 --> 00:35:16,200
Have you come closer to what you want?
277
00:35:17,900 --> 00:35:22,400
I think it's good
With time and space for both of us.
278
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:27,300
It is important to me
to not define anything right now.
279
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,300
But ...
I have to go in again.
280
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,300
Remember to give Mikael the wart.
281
00:35:34,500 --> 00:35:38,300
- It should be taken on every week.
- Yes, I've done it.
282
00:35:38,500 --> 00:35:43,300
And then the thermos ... when I was going to
Rinse it, smelled it hurt.
283
00:35:43,500 --> 00:35:48,200
You have to take it completely apart
And rinse it in boiling water.
284
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:52,400
And then I never got
Given you that.
285
00:35:55,900 --> 00:35:57,900
You have to read it.
286
00:36:02,100 --> 00:36:07,100
I have not provided a babysitter.
Then you know what awaits us, -
287
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,700
- If we get back together, then.
288
00:36:10,900 --> 00:36:16,000
But the trip is paid so you can
travel with someone else if you want.
289
00:36:20,900 --> 00:36:22,900
I have to go in again.
290
00:36:23,100 --> 00:36:27,900
I had been looking forward to working,
But I can't do that now.
291
00:36:28,100 --> 00:36:32,700
I have no job, so I earn
Nothing, so you have to take the bills.
292
00:36:32,900 --> 00:36:35,800
I have to go in again,
So I don't lose that job.
293
00:36:35,900 --> 00:36:38,800
But I really want to work.
294
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:43,300
I don't understand
Why you do this.
295
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:48,300
- I can't talk about this now.
- Is it because I'm not good enough?
296
00:36:48,500 --> 00:36:52,000
Did I change,
so you hadn't done this, -
297
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:58,000
- But I can't get better.
I do as best I can.
298
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:03,100
I am worn out and have sacrificed everything
I dreamed of doing.
299
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,000
- I'm just shit.
- Don't beat yourself.
300
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:09,200
- I'm not worth a shit.
- Don't do it.
301
00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:13,700
If I come
on the mastery course -
302
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:16,800
- or on psychiatric,
Do you want me then?
303
00:37:16,900 --> 00:37:20,500
Can you just say
What you want me to do?
304
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,000
You, you ... look at me.
305
00:37:23,100 --> 00:37:28,100
Now I go in and you have to take you
together. You have to talk to someone.
306
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:41,000
He's not going to be separated.
307
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:44,700
I can't believe that.
He just needs some room.
308
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:50,200
I don't know.
I feel that anything can happen.
309
00:38:50,300 --> 00:38:55,000
I don't know who he is anymore.
I don't understand what he's doing.
310
00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,700
He has never been in
a longer relationship before you.
311
00:38:58,900 --> 00:39:04,700
- And then he met Dracula.
- Yes, he was a little unlucky.
312
00:39:04,900 --> 00:39:08,200
But he doesn't have that experience
As you have, -
313
00:39:08,300 --> 00:39:11,300
- With children and previous conditions.
314
00:39:11,500 --> 00:39:14,600
- He has been in previous matters.
- Half a year, yes.
315
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:19,900
But he has not been a place where
You have to work to move forward.
316
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,600
It just sounds like
You must in therapy.
317
00:39:22,700 --> 00:39:27,200
He doesn't want to. He will only
That I'm going to change.
318
00:39:27,300 --> 00:39:30,600
It is impossible to say.
319
00:39:30,700 --> 00:39:33,900
Then he must be able to say that
in front of a third person.
320
00:39:34,100 --> 00:39:38,200
If he is so afraid to turn out
For an outsider, -
321
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,800
- Then there's something he hides.
322
00:39:40,900 --> 00:39:45,800
Has he been in therapy before? No.
Is he talking to his friends about it?
323
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:49,000
No, he has no valve.
Just me.
324
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:51,800
If he really wants to leave you, -
325
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:56,300
- is mandatory with mediation,
If you have children.
326
00:39:56,500 --> 00:40:00,900
- He might be involved.
- Yes, that's a minimum.
327
00:40:15,100 --> 00:40:19,600
- Hi. Maria and Sigmund?
- Yes.
328
00:40:19,700 --> 00:40:22,200
Hi. Hi.
329
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:24,400
Join me.
330
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,000
So Sigmund says he is experiencing -
331
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:33,600
- that he has no room,
And that he feels trapped.
332
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:39,200
Yes. I get sick of it.
Or ... I don't know.
333
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:44,900
It is difficult to sort now.
Maybe that's why I need rooms.
334
00:40:45,100 --> 00:40:49,200
Room? You're out working all the time.
I'm alone with everything.
335
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,500
You have lots of rooms.
336
00:40:51,700 --> 00:40:56,800
When it is my turn to work,
Then you still take a job.
337
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:01,400
I beg you to cancel,
And then you want to be separated!
338
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:07,100
I understand that you have a lot on your heart,
But can we focus on Sigmund first?
339
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,400
- Is it okay for you, Maria?
- Yes.
340
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:16,000
What makes it hard for you
To take the room you need?
341
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,300
It's not so easy to say.
342
00:41:19,500 --> 00:41:23,000
There is difference
in private and work rooms.
343
00:41:23,200 --> 00:41:27,600
You have one of the parts,
And I have none of the parts.
344
00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:32,800
So Maria is inside everything, everywhere.
345
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,400
I don't know
How to explain it.
346
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,800
I'm not doing well anywhere.
347
00:41:39,900 --> 00:41:44,200
I have no room for maneuver.
I don't have a place in the home.
348
00:41:44,300 --> 00:41:48,000
There is no room for anyone now.
It's a hectic time.
349
00:41:48,100 --> 00:41:51,800
I get a little curious about
What you say, Sigmund.
350
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:56,000
What makes it hard for you
To take that space?
351
00:41:56,100 --> 00:42:00,000
I don't know
If it's hard ...
352
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,700
No? What do you mean?
You just don't get room?
353
00:42:04,800 --> 00:42:08,800
Yes ... there is so much conflict
all the time, -
354
00:42:09,000 --> 00:42:11,900
- especially if I
Trying to take a seat.
355
00:42:12,100 --> 00:42:15,700
Do you think it's difficult?
With conflicts?
356
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,200
Yes, it's tiring.
357
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:22,100
Is it just Mary's fault
that you have no room, -
358
00:42:22,300 --> 00:42:25,400
- Or is there anything you can do yourself?
359
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:30,500
I don't know. In order to be honest
I don't know what to say.
360
00:42:30,700 --> 00:42:34,200
There is so much anger
That I can't see clearly.
361
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:39,600
It's clear one gets angry
When you are alone with everything all the time.
362
00:42:39,700 --> 00:42:45,800
I also take a lot of responsibility.
After all, I looked after your children.
363
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:50,600
- It has cost.
- Should we start to count on it and?
364
00:42:50,700 --> 00:42:54,600
I am glad for all that
You have given the big kids, -
365
00:42:54,700 --> 00:42:59,100
- But it has also cost something
That you have entered their lives.
366
00:42:59,300 --> 00:43:02,600
Had I just had them,
Had I had a lot of freedom.
367
00:43:02,700 --> 00:43:08,900
We just have to go through this. Kids
are small. We never have a babysitter.
368
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:15,000
With an uncertain economy and four children,
Is it clear that we must stick together.
369
00:43:15,100 --> 00:43:20,100
- I've divorced before, and ...
- This is from the winter holidays.
370
00:43:20,300 --> 00:43:23,900
Have you recorded it?
371
00:43:24,100 --> 00:43:30,700
that's the only thing to remember!
But you just shit in it!
372
00:43:30,800 --> 00:43:36,400
- It is taken out of context.
- We don't have to listen to this now.
373
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,600
My God!
374
00:43:41,900 --> 00:43:45,400
Don't you get angry, Sigmund?
375
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,800
No ... I don't know.
376
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:53,500
It must make you angry
That Mary gets so angry with you.
377
00:43:55,100 --> 00:44:00,000
If you don't know you're angry,
Is it perhaps a problem in itself?
378
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:04,500
But can you understand
That your mind affects him?
379
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,600
It's a big picture.
380
00:44:06,800 --> 00:44:11,100
I don't think the solution is
That I'm going to a mastery course.
381
00:44:11,300 --> 00:44:17,800
Why should I be downgraded
In order for you to get more space, -
382
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,600
- When you are already the
Who has the most room?
383
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,900
I think we have to solve it together, -
384
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:28,400
- and I'm willing
To go into therapy, together.
385
00:44:28,500 --> 00:44:31,200
I'm not there right now.
386
00:44:34,300 --> 00:44:39,900
OK. Now the hour is soon over,
And we should quit immediately.
387
00:44:40,100 --> 00:44:45,400
But I would like to summarize
And clarify where we are in the process.
388
00:44:45,500 --> 00:44:50,700
Mary, you would like to continue
To work on this on the relationship?
389
00:44:50,900 --> 00:44:54,400
Sigmund, what are you thinking now?
390
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,500
Yes ...
391
00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:00,600
I'm unsure of
Whether I want to continue.
392
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:05,600
You must then be able to say something.
After all, I can't live in uncertainty.
393
00:45:05,700 --> 00:45:09,600
You must be able to say
Whether you want to try or not.
394
00:45:12,300 --> 00:45:17,100
It is absolutely fucking. I have no idea
What I have to deal with.
395
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:21,500
This is demanding for Mary.
I understand that.
396
00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:27,700
Maria would like to move home and know
What she has to deal with.
397
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:30,000
Yes, I understand it.
398
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:34,400
Can we set a deadline
To give Maria a clear answer?
399
00:45:34,500 --> 00:45:37,000
OK.
400
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:41,000
What do you think, Sigmund?
A day or a week?
401
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:45,300
It's nice
That the wait is not so long.
402
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:49,200
I can imagine a few days.
403
00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:52,300
Yes? It's terrific.
404
00:45:52,500 --> 00:45:55,300
Can we say by Wednesday night?
405
00:45:55,500 --> 00:45:58,300
Do you go well for you, Mary?
406
00:46:07,100 --> 00:46:10,700
Then I think
That we are seen again on Thursday.
407
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:15,600
Then we can talk a little about the road ahead
together or each for you.
408
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,500
I think that is important.
409
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:27,800
Sorry. Are we done?
I think it's the job, like ...
410
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:36,100
I would like to have checked
Some personal information.
411
00:46:36,300 --> 00:46:37,600
Yes.
412
00:47:00,400 --> 00:47:04,000
He was going to send an answer
by tonight.
413
00:47:04,100 --> 00:47:08,400
He will probably answer. He nourishes
well to keep what he promises?
414
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:13,100
Yes. Perhaps apart
from the marriage promises.
415
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:18,300
things are going well. This ...
Do you know what? I just think ...
416
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,700
I don't know ...
What do you think he wants to write?
417
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:31,600
I think ... can't you
try not to think about it?
418
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,900
Breathe a little with the stomach,
and get you some sleep.
419
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:38,200
He loves you.
I know he does.
420
00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:42,400
If he leaves you, then he is
An idiot. And he is not.
421
00:48:26,300 --> 00:48:28,600
Dear Mary, -
422
00:48:28,700 --> 00:48:33,800
- first I want to thank you for all
the nice moments together.
423
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,100
it has meant so much to me.
424
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,400
you must probably prepare yourself for
that I want out of the relationship.
425
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:31,400
You have come to Sigmund.
Leave a message.
426
00:49:35,100 --> 00:49:37,100
Mom!
427
00:49:39,100 --> 00:49:43,100
Mom! I can't do this!
428
00:49:59,300 --> 00:50:01,900
You need to prepare yourself for
That I want out of the relationship.
429
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,200
You need to prepare yourself for
That I want out of the relationship.
430
00:50:05,300 --> 00:50:08,300
You need to prepare yourself for
That I want out of the relationship.
431
00:50:08,500 --> 00:50:11,800
you need to prepare yourself for
that I want out of the relationship.
432
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:40,100
You have come to Sigmund. Fence
a message, then I call back.
433
00:50:40,300 --> 00:50:45,300
I'm coming and taking the kids now,
Then you can go wherever you want.
434
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:50,800
I can do without you. I
will never talk to the kids about you.
435
00:50:50,900 --> 00:50:55,200
I don't bother being here anymore,
So now I'm coming home.
436
00:50:55,300 --> 00:50:59,800
It is nice if you can confirm
That you got this message.
437
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:24,800
Did he write that?
438
00:51:26,500 --> 00:51:29,800
So it ... it's great.
439
00:51:32,300 --> 00:51:37,200
- It's so sad that you feel that way.
- Dear ...
440
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:42,000
I just have a little
into hell fucking.
441
00:51:42,100 --> 00:51:48,000
It's fine. I have plenty to do.
I'm going to clear and shower ...
442
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,400
There are some mailers I have to send.
443
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:55,400
I can come here
After I have been to Blindern.
444
00:51:55,600 --> 00:51:58,300
I'm sleeping here tonight.
445
00:51:58,500 --> 00:52:03,000
It's incredibly kind of you,
But I do.
446
00:52:03,100 --> 00:52:06,600
- You don't have to.
- Okay.
447
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:10,700
Then you call me if there is anything.
448
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:13,700
- Do you promise it?
- Yes, I'm calling.
449
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,100
- Have it.
- Okay. Have it.
450
00:52:30,300 --> 00:52:35,400
- Hi.
- I think we have to wait for Sigmund.
451
00:52:35,500 --> 00:52:38,800
I got a message about
That he does not come.
452
00:52:38,900 --> 00:52:42,800
- Why not?
- He didn't write anything about that.
453
00:52:45,700 --> 00:52:48,800
Fuck fuck.
454
00:52:50,100 --> 00:52:54,900
Since you still have this hour,
Maybe you want to come in?
455
00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:02,000
- Alone?
- You might get something out of it.
456
00:53:04,100 --> 00:53:09,400
Now this may have been something else
than what you had been waiting.
457
00:53:09,500 --> 00:53:13,300
I don't understand
Why I'm going to sit here, -
458
00:53:13,400 --> 00:53:16,400
- When it is him
who needs it.
459
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:20,400
Should he just get off like that?
Don't do anything.
460
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:26,700
Yes, I think he will have to
in one way or the other.
461
00:53:28,200 --> 00:53:34,900
It's not that important what he does.
What is important to you now is -
462
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:39,600
- that you focus on
to sort your own. What you have.
463
00:53:43,400 --> 00:53:45,900
What I have with me?
464
00:53:46,100 --> 00:53:49,600
It is a very big question.
465
00:53:49,700 --> 00:53:54,200
We can think about what may be
Your part in this.
466
00:53:54,400 --> 00:54:00,300
My part? It is he who wants to go.
Do you think I've provoked it?
467
00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,200
- Do you think?
- No.
468
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,800
I don't know what you're thinking about.
469
00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:11,600
Is there nothing in the situation here
As you are responsible for?
470
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:16,000
Yes, I probably have a small part in it,
But it's not that important, -
471
00:54:16,100 --> 00:54:19,300
- When it is he who wants to be separated.
472
00:54:19,500 --> 00:54:24,800
That's nice. Then we grab
in the small part that is yours.
473
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:32,100
OK.
474
00:54:32,200 --> 00:54:36,500
Last did you tell how it was
when he got home from work.
475
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:40,800
How he would take the job
and took the parent interview -
476
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:46,200
- Without listening to you first,
And then suddenly it would be separated.
477
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:50,200
- Yes.
- Can you tell it again?
478
00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:58,400
- I've already told it.
- Yes, but try to tell it again.
479
00:54:58,600 --> 00:55:03,500
Tell about when he got home
After being gone for six weeks.
480
00:55:05,900 --> 00:55:08,500
I was very tired.
481
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:13,400
I put in the dishwasher,
and then he came in by the door.
482
00:55:13,500 --> 00:55:17,400
and what happens inside you
When you see him?
483
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:23,200
I am glad to see him.
I love him, I know it.
484
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:26,400
and what happens?
485
00:55:26,500 --> 00:55:31,200
He's happy. He's coming
towards me and will hug me.
486
00:55:31,300 --> 00:55:36,300
I go towards him.
Then he keeps me up to him.
487
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:39,200
and then you hug him too?
488
00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:41,800
Not so long.
489
00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:45,500
you don't want to hug him back?
490
00:55:45,600 --> 00:55:49,300
No, I don't really want it.
491
00:55:49,500 --> 00:55:53,600
why not,
When you are so happy to see him?
492
00:55:55,500 --> 00:55:59,500
- I don't know.
- And what happens?
493
00:55:59,700 --> 00:56:04,600
Then he comes in and helps me
with what I keep on me.
494
00:56:04,800 --> 00:56:07,900
is there anything you omit now?
495
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:13,600
When you stop hugging him,
What does he do?
496
00:56:15,700 --> 00:56:21,200
I don't know. He may be
slightly surprised or tired.
497
00:56:22,500 --> 00:56:25,400
and you?
498
00:56:25,500 --> 00:56:28,100
I look away.
499
00:56:28,300 --> 00:56:32,200
In what way do you disregard?
500
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,400
- I don't know.
- Why are you doing?
501
00:56:35,500 --> 00:56:39,400
Why are you looking away
That way you do?
502
00:56:41,300 --> 00:56:44,300
i will
that he should feel bad.
503
00:56:44,500 --> 00:56:48,700
- why do you want it?
- I don't know.
504
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:52,700
- Is there anything he has done?
- Yes, he has gone from us.
505
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:57,000
- But you agreed?
- Yes.
506
00:56:57,200 --> 00:57:00,500
- and you have approved it?
- Yes.
507
00:57:02,000 --> 00:57:06,300
Why do you want to
that should feel bad?
508
00:57:08,300 --> 00:57:10,600
I don't know.
509
00:57:15,200 --> 00:57:17,200
What happens?
510
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:24,200
- he starts talking about the job.
- is he glad to share it?
511
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:28,000
- Yes, he is happy. Teller.
- and you?
512
00:57:28,100 --> 00:57:32,400
- I just want him to quit.
- Why that?
513
00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:36,600
I just think it's uncomfortable,
So I interrupt him.
514
00:57:36,700 --> 00:57:38,500
what are you saying?
515
00:57:38,700 --> 00:57:42,200
There has been something stuff
With Mikael at school again.
516
00:57:42,300 --> 00:57:47,700
should Sigmund feel that it is his
Responsibility that Mikael has problems?
517
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:53,600
I understand Jo
that it is not his responsibility.
518
00:57:53,700 --> 00:57:58,100
But you still want him to feel
that it is his responsibility?
519
00:57:58,300 --> 00:58:00,600
- Yes.
- Why?
520
00:58:00,800 --> 00:58:06,000
because it has happened
while he was away from me.
521
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:11,000
But do you think there is something else
Sigmund could have done?
522
00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,400
No.
523
00:58:15,700 --> 00:58:20,300
but still you will
that he should feel guilty.
524
00:58:20,500 --> 00:58:22,600
Yes.
525
00:58:22,700 --> 00:58:24,700
why that?
526
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:30,700
Why do you want to
that he should feel bad?
527
00:58:37,300 --> 00:58:42,500
Have you in several situations wanted
that he should feel like that?
528
00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:57,400
See if you can remember those times
you have been doing the same.
529
00:59:02,000 --> 00:59:04,800
Is it going well?
530
00:59:35,100 --> 00:59:41,800
Optimist
I know it's going well at last
531
00:59:41,900 --> 00:59:46,000
as long as I live here
532
00:59:46,100 --> 00:59:49,200
am I an optimist
533
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:53,400
i am an optimist
534
00:59:56,800 --> 00:59:59,100
What happens in that situation?
535
00:59:59,300 --> 01:00:02,400
I don't want to
because it doesn't feel good.
536
01:00:02,600 --> 01:00:04,900
Because I feel stupid.
537
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:09,200
If he sees I am enthusiastic,
will he ridicule me.
538
01:00:09,400 --> 01:00:12,900
I don't want to receive
all that joy.
539
01:00:14,600 --> 01:00:18,000
- Hi. I can take over.
- It's going well.
540
01:00:18,100 --> 01:00:22,000
- You don't know what belongs to who.
- Yes, I do.
541
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:26,600
When you fold clothes, find
I my panties in Michael's drawer.
542
01:00:26,800 --> 01:00:30,200
You don't know the difference between
Wool and cotton.
543
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:32,800
Yes, yes. Just put it down.
544
01:00:32,900 --> 01:00:36,500
No. You're never here. You don't know
Which clothes belong to who.
545
01:00:36,700 --> 01:00:41,200
It just ends up with
That I have to do it.
546
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:46,600
- Okay. Who is it here?
- Your?
547
01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:48,900
Yes, that's mine.
548
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:55,700
Very good, Sigmund. Look here.
Didn't it fit well?
549
01:00:55,800 --> 01:00:58,500
It's Mikael's.
550
01:00:58,700 --> 01:01:01,200
And this one?
551
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,000
It's Alma's pants.
552
01:01:05,200 --> 01:01:08,600
It's Ludvig's little boy.
553
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:10,900
There you see.
554
01:01:12,700 --> 01:01:17,400
I think you've known
that he was going from you for a long time.
555
01:01:30,100 --> 01:01:36,100
I can't believe that.
After all, you worked for their relationship.
556
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:40,000
After all, you are the vulnerable.
It is he who wants to go.
557
01:01:40,200 --> 01:01:45,800
Maybe I've expected it. The
Is what I know from my childhood.
558
01:01:46,000 --> 01:01:50,400
I may be pushing him
unconsciously out of the relationship.
559
01:01:50,600 --> 01:01:55,400
- Why should you do it?
- To keep him.
560
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:59,000
Keeping on him by pushing him away?
561
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:06,400
If I make him feel
Bad that things are his fault, -
562
01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:11,000
- then he will think
That I am better than him.
563
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:16,000
And then he will believe
that he is lucky to have me, -
564
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:18,900
- And that he must be with me.
565
01:02:19,100 --> 01:02:26,000
So if I get him to
to feel inferior to me, -
566
01:02:26,200 --> 01:02:31,400
- Then he does not discover how bad
I really am.
567
01:02:31,500 --> 01:02:36,100
Uff a me. Ie ...
568
01:02:36,300 --> 01:02:40,700
You don't think you're
inferior to him?
569
01:02:40,800 --> 01:02:42,700
You ...
570
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:45,400
You're so good.
571
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:49,900
I'm so fond of you.
572
01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:58,600
Excuse me.
That sweater was so sting.
573
01:03:02,300 --> 01:03:04,500
OK.
574
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:31,200
Have you always been afraid
To be abandoned?
575
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:34,800
what's going on
If he goes from you?
576
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:37,600
Then I die.
577
01:03:37,700 --> 01:03:39,700
Do you die?
578
01:03:39,900 --> 01:03:44,000
Yes, or ... getting away.
579
01:03:45,700 --> 01:03:47,700
why that?
580
01:03:47,900 --> 01:03:51,200
because he brings with
all that is good in my life.
581
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:54,000
Then there is nothing left.
582
01:03:55,500 --> 01:04:00,800
So if there is only you again,
So isn't that good enough?
583
01:04:02,200 --> 01:04:06,400
all that is good, it's
related to him?
584
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:11,500
Yes, in a way. He is in a way
what is good about me.
585
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:18,000
really I don't realize
that I got him.
586
01:04:20,700 --> 01:04:25,100
but sooner or later
will he discover it.
587
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:31,000
If he gets time to be in his
own room or with others, -
588
01:04:31,100 --> 01:04:36,400
- then he will discover
That it is much better to be there -
589
01:04:36,600 --> 01:04:39,000
- than being with me.
590
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,000
- Hi.
- Hi.
591
01:04:46,100 --> 01:04:48,000
My girl.
592
01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:52,400
You could handle your hair, at least.
593
01:04:52,600 --> 01:04:54,700
Hi. There you were.
594
01:04:56,600 --> 01:04:59,900
- And dad was delayed?
- Yes.
595
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:04,700
We are here to talk about Alma.
It has been very good this winter.
596
01:05:04,900 --> 01:05:08,700
I am incredibly impressed with it
You have done.
597
01:05:08,900 --> 01:05:12,000
Besides, you are
A joy to have in the classroom.
598
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:17,200
You are kind, funny and caring,
And you deliver your homework when you are going.
599
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:21,500
By the way have you seen
Master's book? It's so nice.
600
01:05:21,700 --> 01:05:26,000
No, I haven't seen it.
Why haven't you shown me it?
601
01:05:26,100 --> 01:05:30,900
I don't have to check the home page,
For Alma always delivers.
602
01:05:31,000 --> 01:05:33,300
Yes, she does.
603
01:05:33,500 --> 01:05:38,600
There has been so much talk about
Parents who checked all the time, -
604
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:42,900
- and spend so much time on
to rush on their children.
605
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:47,000
I never have mast on you.
You just do all of yourself -
606
01:05:47,100 --> 01:05:51,000
- Without asking for help.
It's so good.
607
01:05:51,100 --> 01:05:56,100
Exactly. It won't be a bit
Too much on you, Alma?
608
01:05:56,300 --> 01:05:58,100
It's fine.
609
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,500
I think that is your father.
610
01:06:02,700 --> 01:06:06,700
That was it.
Two sec. I'm just going to pick him up.
611
01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:14,000
This is great.
612
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:18,700
Why do you say that about
That you are not on the homework page?
613
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:24,200
- To say you are independent.
- Just end and say it, okay?
614
01:06:24,300 --> 01:06:28,500
But I've never been there.
You deliver everything you need.
615
01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:32,200
So nice for you.
It would probably have been tiring for you.
616
01:06:32,300 --> 01:06:35,400
- It's just because you don't bother.
- Why do you say that?
617
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:40,800
You don't understand anything. You want me
Must work hard. Is not like you.
618
01:06:41,000 --> 01:06:47,200
You don't need any of anyone,
But I'm not like you.
619
01:06:51,100 --> 01:06:53,300
- Hi.
- Hi.
620
01:06:53,500 --> 01:06:57,600
I just want to update you on it
We've been talking about.
621
01:06:57,800 --> 01:07:03,200
It goes very well with Alma,
Both professionally and socially.
622
01:07:35,700 --> 01:07:37,700
Coming!
623
01:07:44,300 --> 01:07:47,800
Hi. Is that you?
624
01:07:47,900 --> 01:07:50,900
Yes, I would come to a trip.
625
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:54,300
Maria my ... How are you?
626
01:07:54,400 --> 01:07:59,000
My girl! Come in, then.
627
01:07:59,100 --> 01:08:02,400
Fortunately, you are strong. You are.
628
01:08:02,600 --> 01:08:05,400
You're like me like me.
629
01:08:05,500 --> 01:08:08,600
The women in our family
Withstands most.
630
01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:12,400
I often think about it,
that it is a string -
631
01:08:12,600 --> 01:08:16,300
- of very strong women
through our family.
632
01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:20,700
We have mom ...
And me, you, Alma ...
633
01:08:22,100 --> 01:08:27,800
I also often think of all those years
With dad and divorce and stuff.
634
01:08:28,000 --> 01:08:33,800
Obviously it's tough,
But I got through it.
635
01:08:33,900 --> 01:08:37,800
And you have the same power.
It's going to go well, Maria.
636
01:08:37,900 --> 01:08:41,400
It's going to go well.
It does.
637
01:08:43,500 --> 01:08:49,300
- I have this one.
- Okay. Yes well. What is it for something?
638
01:08:49,500 --> 01:08:52,000
It's just a small gift.
639
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:55,100
There is a lot of paper.
640
01:08:55,200 --> 01:09:00,700
It is from the nice store
As I know you like so much.
641
01:09:00,900 --> 01:09:06,000
I tried to find that taste
You talked about when we were in London.
642
01:09:06,200 --> 01:09:12,000
- Was there anything I said?
- Yes. You liked it very well.
643
01:09:12,200 --> 01:09:15,800
I've stopped drinking tea.
644
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:21,400
You get so yellow teeth from it.
There is nothing special at my age.
645
01:09:21,600 --> 01:09:27,300
The neighbor has got tooth whitening.
It's the last thing now.
646
01:09:27,500 --> 01:09:31,200
I really have
Very much to do today.
647
01:09:31,400 --> 01:09:36,600
Anne, the neighbor, had a water leakage,
So I had to go down to help her.
648
01:09:36,800 --> 01:09:42,800
And then there has been so much stress
With those there tickets.
649
01:09:43,000 --> 01:09:47,100
And are ... he thinks I
has called over a hundred times -
650
01:09:47,300 --> 01:09:50,900
- Because of the big anniversary
in the union.
651
01:09:51,000 --> 01:09:54,000
You see
What is on my list.
652
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:57,500
There is so much mess.
I can hardly stay here.
653
01:09:57,600 --> 01:10:00,800
I have no more space in the attic.
654
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:05,000
You haven't picked it up
which stands in the inner attic.
655
01:10:05,100 --> 01:10:10,000
- I can take those things.
- I think that when I see it.
656
01:10:11,800 --> 01:10:15,600
Green tea, I treat myself.
657
01:10:15,700 --> 01:10:19,000
This one is very good.
658
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:23,600
And the box is so cute.
Look at it here. It's so cute.
659
01:10:23,800 --> 01:10:27,800
Can't you put yourself in your place?
660
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:35,700
- I can sit in your place.
- Yes, by all means.
661
01:10:35,900 --> 01:10:39,500
But won't you sit
in your old space?
662
01:10:43,100 --> 01:10:46,000
You always sat there.
Like a queen.
663
01:10:46,200 --> 01:10:50,400
You made sure to sit there
So you didn't have to get up.
664
01:10:50,500 --> 01:10:56,000
Erlend and I had to do so.
We added back and forth, -
665
01:10:56,100 --> 01:11:01,200
- and you sat there like a princess
and expected to be waived.
666
01:11:01,400 --> 01:11:04,800
Do you want a slice of brown cheese?
667
01:11:05,000 --> 01:11:08,200
My girl ... will you?
668
01:11:10,400 --> 01:11:13,400
Why do you say that
With the space at the table?
669
01:11:13,500 --> 01:11:16,200
What then? I ...
670
01:11:16,300 --> 01:11:20,000
That I was just sitting here,
And that you did everything for me?
671
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:25,400
- That's just the way it was.
- What do you want to achieve by saying that?
672
01:11:25,500 --> 01:11:28,400
It was just
A humorous comment.
673
01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:32,800
You had a tendency to
To ask people to do things for you.
674
01:11:32,900 --> 01:11:38,200
You had a little ... what should I say?
Such a little primadonnan.
675
01:11:38,300 --> 01:11:43,000
- It's nothing new.
- Do you think it's a fun comment?
676
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:49,600
Have some humor, then, Maria.
Must everything be so fucking dramatic?
677
01:11:49,800 --> 01:11:54,200
If one stops laughing,
Then there is nothing left.
678
01:11:54,300 --> 01:11:56,400
The girl mi ...
679
01:11:56,500 --> 01:12:03,200
I have bought some very good cheeses
in the delicacy business on the corner.
680
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:07,000
You say
That I have asked for too much of you?
681
01:12:07,100 --> 01:12:09,400
Yes, ie ...
682
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:12,400
I have ...
683
01:12:12,600 --> 01:12:17,100
... felt me
Like a servant occasionally.
684
01:12:17,300 --> 01:12:19,000
In what way?
685
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:22,300
I don't know ...
It was a bit like you were.
686
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:25,300
It was difficult
to set boundaries for you.
687
01:12:25,400 --> 01:12:28,600
You were quite demanding occasionally.
688
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:34,900
I'm just going to see ...
689
01:12:44,500 --> 01:12:46,400
Mom?
690
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:54,500
- Mom?
- Yes. What is it for something now?
691
01:12:54,700 --> 01:12:58,900
I don't really think it feels
Something good for you to give something to me.
692
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:03,200
What do you mean?
I have done nothing but give.
693
01:13:03,300 --> 01:13:06,900
I have been alone with you
In all these years.
694
01:13:07,000 --> 01:13:11,600
If not you have got with you what
I have given, it is surprising.
695
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:15,800
- I'm not saying you haven't given.
- What are you saying?
696
01:13:15,900 --> 01:13:18,800
I was all alone with you.
697
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:22,600
For your father stuck.
Full and lousy.
698
01:13:22,800 --> 01:13:28,800
I cried every single night,
Because I was so fucking tired.
699
01:13:28,900 --> 01:13:33,600
- I understand it.
- I was so unhappy those years.
700
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:37,100
It was a nightmare.
701
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:44,200
No, I don't have to think about it.
Then I can't do anything today.
702
01:13:45,900 --> 01:13:50,200
I don't say
That you have not given anything.
703
01:13:50,400 --> 01:13:54,600
I don't think it feels good
For you to give me.
704
01:13:54,800 --> 01:13:58,600
- What do you mean?
- It doesn't feel good to give.
705
01:13:58,700 --> 01:14:03,000
I don't believe
It feels good for you to get either.
706
01:14:03,200 --> 01:14:08,300
Teen I gave you ... I don't think
It felt good for you to get it.
707
01:14:08,400 --> 01:14:11,800
After all, I was very fond of that tea.
708
01:14:11,900 --> 01:14:15,000
Did you?
In what way did you show it?
709
01:14:15,200 --> 01:14:18,900
Such a cross -examination.
That's what I can't do with you.
710
01:14:19,100 --> 01:14:23,300
What you say now is
That you don't really like me.
711
01:14:23,500 --> 01:14:26,200
It's like you want to push me away.
712
01:14:26,400 --> 01:14:31,100
It is as if you want
That I feel bad.
713
01:14:31,300 --> 01:14:34,800
Maybe you had
That mind against Dad too.
714
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:40,100
He said you always made fun
of him in an unpleasant way.
715
01:14:40,200 --> 01:14:42,900
He should not say anything.
716
01:14:43,100 --> 01:14:46,400
Maybe you didn't realize
What you did.
717
01:14:46,600 --> 01:14:50,000
Now I think
You should fit yourself, Maria.
718
01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:54,700
I feel you want to
That I should feel bad.
719
01:14:54,900 --> 01:15:01,200
You have never been interested in
to think about other than yourself.
720
01:15:01,300 --> 01:15:05,600
When you came today, I thought:
"Oh, so nice.
721
01:15:05,700 --> 01:15:10,700
Maybe she wants to ask how
I have it? 'Are you tired, mom?'
722
01:15:10,900 --> 01:15:14,900
'Do you need any help, Mom?' "
No, you didn't.
723
01:15:15,000 --> 01:15:19,500
But your brother does.
He is tender and caring and ...
724
01:15:19,700 --> 01:15:23,200
He always put a blanket over me
When I was tired.
725
01:15:23,300 --> 01:15:25,600
You have never done such things.
726
01:15:25,700 --> 01:15:28,700
You won't remember that
I have done well.
727
01:15:28,900 --> 01:15:33,400
You will not receive it
I have to give you.
728
01:15:33,600 --> 01:15:39,400
I don't know why you don't
Trust that I want you well.
729
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:42,600
That I am good and have a good heart.
730
01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:46,200
I can never be good enough
For you, anyway.
731
01:15:46,300 --> 01:15:53,200
I have gone with a voice inside me,
That I am so bad and worthless.
732
01:15:53,300 --> 01:15:57,000
It sits
Deep inside my chest.
733
01:15:57,200 --> 01:15:59,400
OK.
734
01:15:59,600 --> 01:16:03,400
Is it my fault, too?
735
01:16:03,600 --> 01:16:06,600
No, I'm not saying it is,
But maybe ...
736
01:16:06,800 --> 01:16:10,900
I don't think I can do this.
I'm so tired.
737
01:16:11,000 --> 01:16:14,600
I was happy when you came,
But then it was to criticize me.
738
01:16:14,800 --> 01:16:19,600
I am a human, not a machine,
that can receive anything.
739
01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:25,100
I think I'm going for a walk. You can
Just go when you're done eating.
740
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:30,200
I can't bear all the criticism.
Maybe others do, but not me.
741
01:17:12,000 --> 01:17:14,000
How are you doing?
742
01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:19,100
Yes, it's fine.
743
01:17:22,400 --> 01:17:26,100
I think about what we were talking about.
744
01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:31,700
About feeling like the bad.
And the one who can't give.
745
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:35,100
It must also be painful for you.
746
01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:43,700
No, it's not that painful.
747
01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:48,800
- It's fine.
- No?
748
01:17:50,900 --> 01:17:55,000
There are many
Who is much worse than me.
749
01:17:55,200 --> 01:18:01,100
It does not mean that it does not
May be painful for you too.
750
01:18:15,600 --> 01:18:19,900
I don't believe
I manage to talk so much today.
751
01:18:20,000 --> 01:18:25,500
I slept nothing tonight,
So I'm very ... tired.
752
01:18:25,700 --> 01:18:28,100
OK. Want to quit?
753
01:18:29,400 --> 01:18:34,400
I'm so tired, I manage
Don't think. I think I have to rest.
754
01:18:34,500 --> 01:18:38,000
If you want, you can rest here.
755
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:43,800
I have that couch, and ...
Would you like to go to bed?
756
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:47,900
I can't.
It gets very strange.
757
01:18:48,100 --> 01:18:50,900
Of course, it is completely voluntary.
758
01:18:51,100 --> 01:18:56,600
But that's your working time.
It destroys your working time.
759
01:18:56,800 --> 01:19:02,900
Yes, but my time here is for you.
760
01:19:03,100 --> 01:19:08,100
And if that's what you need,
Then I would like to give you that.
761
01:19:08,200 --> 01:19:10,700
Would you like to receive it?
762
01:19:10,900 --> 01:19:14,900
You are tired and that
You need, is there.
763
01:19:17,500 --> 01:19:21,400
You can be allowed to rest
Here with me.
764
01:19:21,500 --> 01:19:23,600
If you want.
765
01:19:31,300 --> 01:19:34,200
OK.
766
01:19:44,900 --> 01:19:48,400
Å. Luxury.
767
01:19:55,200 --> 01:19:58,000
It was very kind.
768
01:20:02,400 --> 01:20:05,000
I'm sitting here with you.
769
01:20:05,200 --> 01:20:09,200
You don't need it.
You probably have lots of work.
770
01:20:09,300 --> 01:20:13,900
I can only lie here a little
Until I feel a little better.
771
01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:16,000
I'm not going to go.
772
01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:22,400
I can sit here watching you.
773
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:25,400
Or I can look a little out of the window.
774
01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:28,100
But I take care of you.
775
01:20:30,600 --> 01:20:35,200
That's nice for me
to be allowed.
776
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:46,400
Excuse me. I'm just tired.
777
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:49,800
It's no wonder.
778
01:20:56,900 --> 01:21:01,300
Excuse me that I ...
I'm just very tired.
779
01:21:01,400 --> 01:21:03,800
It's going well.
780
01:21:10,400 --> 01:21:15,000
There is no wonder
That you feel like that, Mary.
781
01:21:17,200 --> 01:21:22,200
Excuse me. I don't know ...
I don't know what it is with me.
782
01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:25,400
I slept nothing tonight.
783
01:21:29,400 --> 01:21:33,600
I don't usually be like this.
I don't know ...
784
01:22:09,700 --> 01:22:14,600
I hate you.
You're so stupid. You're so stupid!
785
01:22:16,000 --> 01:22:18,600
Cruel. Stupid.
786
01:22:20,700 --> 01:22:24,300
Stupid. I hate you.
I hate you. I hate you.
787
01:22:24,500 --> 01:22:26,600
Stupid. Cruel.
788
01:22:26,800 --> 01:22:29,600
I hate you. A crap, you are.
789
01:24:35,000 --> 01:24:37,000
You ...
790
01:24:40,400 --> 01:24:42,800
You are ...
791
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:52,500
You are ... perfectly ok.
792
01:24:54,600 --> 01:24:56,600
You ...
793
01:24:59,800 --> 01:25:01,800
You're good.
794
01:25:03,900 --> 01:25:07,600
I don't have
clear to say it to you before.
795
01:25:07,800 --> 01:25:09,800
For ...
796
01:25:11,200 --> 01:25:14,400
... I haven't been so good.
797
01:25:18,100 --> 01:25:20,100
Good girl.
798
01:25:23,400 --> 01:25:25,900
You have a good heart.
799
01:25:31,100 --> 01:25:33,400
You can get ...
800
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:39,600
You can get love.
801
01:25:43,000 --> 01:25:45,200
You can get it.
802
01:25:46,600 --> 01:25:51,400
You're so good. You're so ... good.
803
01:25:53,700 --> 01:25:58,600
That's totally ok
That you need love.
804
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:03,000
You're so good.
805
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:11,500
I love you.
806
01:26:17,500 --> 01:26:19,600
I love you.
807
01:28:26,600 --> 01:28:28,200
Hello!
808
01:28:29,300 --> 01:28:32,000
Hello!
809
01:28:32,100 --> 01:28:34,900
Hi. Come, tax.
810
01:28:55,700 --> 01:28:57,700
- Hi.
- Hi.
811
01:29:10,400 --> 01:29:12,400
Hi.
812
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:16,300
You're just so dusty.
813
01:29:22,000 --> 01:29:25,200
You see
That I think you are dusty?
814
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:27,800
Yes, I understand that.
815
01:29:31,000 --> 01:29:36,200
You say you are going to work in Oslo,
But you have no proper job.
816
01:29:36,400 --> 01:29:41,800
You are just unsuccessful and pathetic.
You should never have had children.
817
01:29:41,900 --> 01:29:47,300
I want to move to dad.
He's not like you like you.
818
01:29:47,500 --> 01:29:50,500
It's okay that you want it.
819
01:29:50,700 --> 01:29:54,800
I realize you want it.
820
01:30:02,200 --> 01:30:04,200
Mom.
821
01:30:06,800 --> 01:30:08,800
My girl.
822
01:30:13,800 --> 01:30:17,400
There is no wonder
That you have it that way.
823
01:30:40,500 --> 01:30:44,400
The one on the corner is closed,
So we have to find somewhere else.
824
01:30:52,500 --> 01:30:53,800
Here?
825
01:31:03,900 --> 01:31:05,200
Hi.
826
01:31:11,900 --> 01:31:16,200
- A Farris and a cappuccino.
- Yes, me and.
827
01:31:22,600 --> 01:31:25,400
I don't really have
So much to say.
828
01:31:25,600 --> 01:31:28,500
It was you who wanted to meet.
829
01:31:31,100 --> 01:31:35,100
Say what you should say.
I'm going to listen.
830
01:31:55,800 --> 01:31:57,900
May I start to cry.
831
01:31:58,000 --> 01:32:04,000
But ... I don't think it is
Because I'm so sorry right now.
832
01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:08,600
I will
That you are going to try not to feel guilty -
833
01:32:08,700 --> 01:32:11,400
- When I say this.
834
01:32:12,400 --> 01:32:17,300
You should know that if you want to go,
Then you can.
835
01:32:17,400 --> 01:32:20,900
You don't have to feel bad.
836
01:32:21,100 --> 01:32:27,600
If that's what you need
To do, you should do it.
837
01:32:31,100 --> 01:32:36,700
And you don't have to be afraid of
That I don't get well.
838
01:32:36,800 --> 01:32:39,000
Because I do.
839
01:32:42,500 --> 01:32:44,500
I'm going to get well.
840
01:32:45,600 --> 01:32:49,700
I have though
How scared I've been.
841
01:32:52,200 --> 01:32:57,500
I have been so scared of
That you were going from me, and ...
842
01:32:57,700 --> 01:33:03,300
... and how hard it has been
For me to say it ... to you.
843
01:33:05,600 --> 01:33:10,700
I've been so scared
To be left with myself ...
844
01:33:10,800 --> 01:33:14,400
... as I've hated so much.
845
01:33:22,900 --> 01:33:26,200
I just want to apologize.
846
01:33:26,400 --> 01:33:30,900
For that I have not had confidence in
That you wanted me well.
847
01:33:31,000 --> 01:33:33,600
I have been blamed.
848
01:33:34,800 --> 01:33:40,900
I have criticized you
And ... held you on.
849
01:33:41,900 --> 01:33:47,900
That's ... Life necessary for me ...
to find out this.
850
01:33:48,100 --> 01:33:49,700
So ...
851
01:33:51,000 --> 01:33:55,800
... in a way it is
Which has happened now ... a gift.
852
01:34:00,600 --> 01:34:03,700
I would like to
That we should be together.
853
01:34:03,800 --> 01:34:07,100
But what I understand now is ...
854
01:34:08,200 --> 01:34:10,800
... that I don't want to ...
855
01:34:11,900 --> 01:34:15,700
I don't want it,
If you don't.
856
01:34:15,900 --> 01:34:18,900
If we are not together, then ...
857
01:34:22,000 --> 01:34:24,400
... it is also ok.
858
01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:29,100
I can also live a good life ...
859
01:34:31,000 --> 01:34:33,400
... without you.
860
01:34:36,200 --> 01:34:38,400
Thanks.
861
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:41,400
Please be so good.
862
01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:56,300
Then just grab
In my own problems.
863
01:34:56,500 --> 01:35:00,700
I understand that we are two in this.
864
01:35:00,900 --> 01:35:05,800
And that I have my part
to grab.
865
01:35:05,900 --> 01:35:10,300
And that I have not been clear on
What are my needs.
866
01:35:10,500 --> 01:35:15,900
It has been dangerous to me
To know what are my needs.
867
01:35:24,300 --> 01:35:27,900
- I have to go.
- Okay.
868
01:35:33,400 --> 01:35:35,400
OK.
869
01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:44,900
- Have it.
- Have it.
870
01:36:17,800 --> 01:36:19,100
Hi.
871
01:36:22,400 --> 01:36:24,400
Hi.
872
01:36:27,000 --> 01:36:29,300
How are you?
873
01:36:38,200 --> 01:36:40,900
It is dangerous to me -
874
01:36:41,000 --> 01:36:45,000
- to receive love
You give me.
875
01:36:45,200 --> 01:36:47,400
I get scared of it.
876
01:36:48,400 --> 01:36:50,400
What are you scared of?
877
01:36:52,300 --> 01:36:58,200
If I let you hold about me,
Then I think you want to let me go.
878
01:36:58,400 --> 01:37:00,400
Do you think so?
879
01:37:02,400 --> 01:37:05,900
Do you think I
are going to drop you?
880
01:37:10,300 --> 01:37:12,500
Come.
881
01:37:15,600 --> 01:37:17,200
Come.
882
01:40:03,300 --> 01:40:07,300
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